Subscribe to Motivational Mondays on your favorite podcast platform!
Dr. Cynthia Hickman was a registered nurse for 27 years. She鈥檚 also the founder and CEO of , a platform educating people to be proactive and mindful of our aging population.
In this episode of Motivational Mondays, she shares her story about becoming a full-time caregiver and what she learned that can help others.
Dr. Hickman spent 27 years as a nurse in acute care cardiology before quitting her job to become her mother鈥檚 full-time caregiver. She thought the transition would be easy, but struggled when she realized that she was her mother鈥檚 sole caregiver.
Her first challenge was anticipating and getting the supplies she鈥檇 need at her fingertips. Dr. Hickman notes that you have to look at your aging parents, see what鈥檚 occurring, and determine how to navigate the situation. When you think proactively, you can anticipate what could occur.
Most people only think about the physical aspects of being a caregiver but you also need to focus on medical care. Dr. Hickman鈥檚 mom had heart failure, so she knew exactly how to care for her since she was familiar with cardiology.
If a parent has a medical condition you鈥檙e unfamiliar with, you need to educate yourself in order to care for them. As a nurse, Dr. Hickman learned how to make subjective and objective observations. When someone tells you how they鈥檙e feeling, it's subjective. But when you observe something's not right, it鈥檚 objective and you must act.
Dr. Hickman wrote to cover the importance of tangible information. If you鈥檙e the one making medical decisions, there are things you need at your fingertips to provide proper care, such as:
Important phone numbers (doctors, family members, hospitals, etc.)
Your charge鈥檚 date of birth, social security number, and other pieces of identification
Access to banking and financial information to pay for their care
Many people don鈥檛 want to think about these things until they鈥檙e faced with them. Watching someone鈥檚 health decline is difficult but you can make the process more bearable if you鈥檙e prepared. After all, how would you want someone to treat you if you鈥檙e the one who's depending on them?
[1:14] Dr. Hickman鈥檚 experience becoming a full-time caregiver
[3:34] What surprised her about the journey of caregiving
[9:43] How her work inspired Corey in his family鈥檚 situation
[11:43] Her first book, which was inspired by her mom
[14:28] Why you need to educate yourself on the healthcare system
[18:07] Why you must pay close attention to your elderly loved ones
[19:18] Her new resource guide for caregivers
Listen to the bonus episode to learn the importance of discussing caregiving plans with our loved ones and why it's never too early or late to talk about it.
91桃色:
Visit Dr. Hickman's
Follow her on , , , and
Read her first book,
Get her newest book,
Check out other Motivational Mondays episodes